Reels on Wheels Movie Club (Episode 2): A Streetcar Named Desire

Today we’re talking about A Streetcar Named Desire. But before I get into it, I want to say thank you for checking out the Reels on Wheels Movie Club. For those of you who don’t know what this is, I’m choosing one film a week to watch and dive into. I announce the Movie of the Week in advance so you can watch too, and I’m hoping to kick off a discussion by sharing my thoughts on the film on Movie Mondays.

Why This Film?

New Orleans is a city unlike any other. It’s a city which many words are insufficient to describe, but for now I’ll stick with vibrant. It starts with the people, and then there’s the music, the food, and so much more. During our stint there last week, I was inspired to look into some of the most notable New Orleans films. There are many titles of note related to the Big Easy, including (not surprisingly) The Big Easy, King Creole, The Princess and the Frog, and Interview with a Vampire.

So with no shortage of options for this Movie of the Week, I decided to go with a film that is widely considered to be one of the best of all time: A Streetcar Named Desire (1951). The film received numerous accolades with four Academy Awards wins (including best actress, best supporting actress, and best supporting actor) and is listed on the American Film Institute’s Top 100 movies at number 47. Even though I’d heard of this film and seen it referenced in pop culture, I’d never actually seen it. And now that I have, I can see why it’s considered one of the all-time greats (though it’s not always enjoyable to watch what’s playing out on the screen).

Summary

Directed by Elia Kazan and adapted from the Tennessee WIlliams pulitzer prize winning play of the same name, the film tells the story of Blanche DuBois (played by Vivian Leigh) after moving in with her sister, Stella Kowalksi (played by Kim Hunter) and brother-in-law Stanley Kowalski (played by Marlon Brando) in New Orleans. Blanche is a middle-aged school-teacher who claims to be on leave from her job due to her nerves and is haunted by the death of her husband when she was younger. Her sister is happy to host her, but the brutish Stan is put-off by her high-class mannerisms and skeptical of her story.

He rummages through Blanche’s belongings thinking she is hiding money from them, but Blanche’s papers show that the family estate was indeed lost to foreclosure. One night during  a poker game, Stanley strikes Stella in a drunken outburst and later pleads with her to forgive him and return, which she does. Blanche wants Stella to leave Stanley, but she refuses. Meanwhile, Blanche strikes up a romance with Stanley’s more well-mannered friend, Mitch (Karl Malden).

Months pass and the tension between Blanche and Stanley has grown, and Stanley has been investigating Blanche’s past. Mitch and Blanche near the point of an engagement until Stanley finds that Blanche had a history of promiscuity and a relationship with an underage student that cost her her teaching position. Stella is upset with Stanley for trying to ruin Blanche’s relationship, and then she goes into labor. Mitch confronts Blanche and their romance ends, and later Stanley returns from the hospital to find Blanche fantasizing about a better future. He antagonizes her before physically attacking her. Blanche is left in a severely disturbed mental state, and it is implied that Stanley raped her. Due to these events, Stella has Blanche committed to a mental institution and decides to take her baby and leave Stanley with no intention to return.

Overall Impressions

Overall, this film took me by surprise. Perhaps I haven’t watched enough older films so my impression is inaccurate, but I was surprised at how dark it was. We’re faced with issues like mental health, domestic violence, suicide, and rape all in a movie rated PG! In any case, once I settled in to exactly what kind of a movie this was going to be, I was able to appreciate the film for many reasons including the integration of its setting, the standout performances, the brilliant writing, and the character-focused story it told. I’m going to get into each of those in turn.

Setting

As I said, this film was chosen in conjunction with our travels to New Orleans. It was fascinating to see how the city was portrayed in this film from 1951. There are some similarities even to the modern day, such as the hustle and bustle you feel from the very outset, as a flustered Blanche makes her way into the French Quarter. There’s people, music, and energy all around. It’s hectic for her as it would be for any out-of-town visitor who didn’t know what to expect. And this immediately indicates to the audience that our main character is a fish-out-of-water here. She’s flustered by her new surroundings, the city, the neighborhood, and her sister’s home. Unlike many films, where the setting may only be a backdrop and little more, here it is highlighted to help tell the story.

One quote in particular stood out to me. When Blanche is talking to the young boy who comes by before she goes out with Mitch, she speaks wistfully and asks “Don’t you just love those long rainy afternoons in New Orleans when an hour isn’t just an hour–but a little piece of eternity dropped into your hands–and who knows what to do with it?” She’s nostalgic, she yearns for more time, she is attracted to his youth and perhaps missing her own, and calling out New Orleans’ ability to slow-down time helps to convey that.

Of course, this is based on a stage play from the 1940s, so there is much more missing from this depiction of the city than what one experiences in reality. Needless to say, this is not a full and accurate representation of the residents of the city, nor the scale of its size, nor the depth of its culture. But it was great to see how the setting played a role in the story.

Performances

With legendary actors like Vivian Leigh and Marlon Brando, you have to talk about the performances in this film. You can really feel that this movie is based on a play. It’s dialogue heavy and most of the scenes take place in one location – in and around the Kowalski home. So the film is anchored by the writing (which I’ll get to below) and, of course, the performances. Ultimately, it’s the ensemble’s ability to feel truly human as they struggle through complicated, tense, and tragic developments in their relationships that elevates this film.

The fact that Vivian Leigh can really act is no secret. She won two Academy Awards for Best Actress, for her iconic performances as Scarlett O’Hara in Gone with the Wind (1939) and here as Blanche DuBois. She brought not just talent but also experience to this role, as she had already played Blanche on stage in London’s West End in 1949. Her performance here is captivating. Blanche is a complicated character, mixing sincerity, deception, anxiety, instability, despair, hope, and – dare I say – desire, among other things. And Leigh is able to deliver all of this in a way that shows us a full picture of her character, where the portrayal could have otherwise felt disjointed and lost.

One scene I want to highlight is the final confrontation with Stanley, when she finally confesses the truth about her past. Up until this point, we’d seen her do many things, but always preserving some part of her act. She had never let down her guard and fully expressed her true self. When she revealed her secrets out loud, confirming to Stanley that she did indeed have the sordid past he discovered, you can hear the inflection and tone of her voice change as well. She’s not wistful, and she drops the high-class persona. She’s more direct and aggressive and her face and voice reflect this.

This performance allows the audience to see, feel, and internalize – not just through her words – the dramatic turn of events that unfolds as she confirms Stanley’s suspicions. It also evokes a sense of dread in the audience because we know just how monstrous Stanley can be when provoked, and up until this point, Blanche had used her lies and stories to defuse at least some of the tension.

And that gets us back to Marlon Brando as Stanley. He’s not the biggest person, but he’s so physically dominant and imposing in every scene he’s in. He sells us on at once being charming and crude, being attractive and repulsive.

Early on, we, along with Blanche, are drawn in by what I found to be a curious moment of female-gaze – curious because so much of film (even today) is dominated by the male-gaze on women, and this is a film from 1951. Blanche appears to be quite intrigued when Stanley comes home and takes off his sweaty shirt, but she’s quickly disillusioned by his thuggish nature, which Brando completely owns.

Still, the film’s iconic moment, where Stanley yells out for Stella after having beaten her, only works because the audience can’t completely hate Stanley and cast him aside as simply a monster serving no other purpose than to antagonize other characters. And it’s honestly a bit uncomfortable for that reason. But I think that’s part of the point. Brando allows us to sympathize for Stella not just as a victim of Stanley’s physical abuse, but also as a victim of his allure. When she returns to him in that moment, we can see and feel why.

Brando also excels at keeping the rage in check and unleashing it in an instant to shock the audience. Early on, when he is rummaging through Blanche’s things looking for answers and she approaches him fishing for compliments, he’s just not giving in. He says she looks okay and just seems to be skeptical of her, but then suddenly he just erupts without warning. We immediately understand that we have a character who’s a volcano. His volatility keeps the audience on their toes.

Both Kim Hunter and Karl Malden delivered Oscar-winning performances as well, and they are well-deserved accolades, but I won’t get into more detail about their performances here because I could go on all day.

Writing

I do also want to commend the writing. It’s so evident that this is an adaptation of a pulitzer prize winning play. Not only is the story complex, emotional, and distinctly human, but also there were simply moments where I had to step back and appreciate certain lines.

One example is the quote I mentioned earlier about New Orleans: “Don’t you just love those long rainy afternoons in New Orleans when an hour isn’t just an hour–but a little piece of eternity dropped into your hands–and who knows what to do with it?” Notwithstanding any deeper meaning, this is just beautifully written.

Another standout moment was the scene where Blanche recalls the loss of her former husband to Mitch. “When I was sixteen” she says “I made the discovery – love. All at once and much, much too completely. It was like you suddenly turned a blinding light on something that had always been half in shadow, that’s how it struck the world for me.” And when he died and the love was gone, she says, “the searchlight which had been turned on the world was turned off again.” That just hits hard. The feeling of intense, young love, the tragic loss, and the sudden and intense emotions associated with both are expertly conveyed by this writing. And this excellent writing serves the film throughout.

Characters

The story forces the audience to grapple with issues of family relationships, abuse, mental health, trauma, and more. This movie could simply be described as watching one man torment two women, but that wouldn’t capture the full story. We’re watching a character study on individuals who are dealing with different demons in different ways.

Stanley is a portrait of toxic masculinity. He’s insecure and takes out his frustrations on his wife and anyone or anything else around. He says he’s the king of his castle and can’t stand being criticized or spoken to in any way he sees as disrespectful. His famous cries for Stella show that he does fear losing her and seems to even be dependent on her, but that’s what makes him so dangerous. He draws her in and deceives her into thinking they are happy. He even tries to blame Blanche’s presence for their marital issues. Ultimately, he’s an abusive and violent person at his core. Even when he is right – discovering Blanche’s lies and true history – he uses that to tear her down even further, take advantage of her weak mental state, and – worst of all – rape her.

Blanche is a person who is trying to desperately to run away from her past. She’s haunted by it. We see the recurring theme of lights to show that she wants to remain in the shadow of the reality she’s crafted for as long as possible. She wants to put a shade on the light in her room. She only goes out in the evenings with Mitch. She says that being in love was like casting a blinding light on the world that went out after her husband’s tragic end. And when Mitch finally confronts her, he – or rather the truth – force her into the light. And it’s in this moment and after, when she can no longer hide in the shadows of her half-truths, that she reckons with her actual reality and begins to fully breakdown. Combined with the trauma inflicted on her by Stanley, she simply can’t bear it. Her story is a tragedy.

Meanwhile, Stella finally can come to terms with the reality that Stanley can’t possibly love her. Perhaps before she could justify his violence and aggression and return to him if he begged forgiveness and said he loved her and that he was wrong. But how could she possibly do so now that he had done the unforgivable to her sister while she was giving birth to their child? She too was forced to face the reality of her life and finally walk away from Stanley for good. Though I will say the ending was ambiguous enough, with her simply going upstairs to Eunice’s apartment like the last time, that she could still return this time as well. Viewed this way, the ending is even more tragic.

Final Thoughts

A Streetcar Named Desire is definitely a film that stands the test of time. Anchored by brilliant writing and excellent performances, the film tells a tragic story that can transcend generations by asking audiences to grapple with serious issues that are human at their core.

I want to leave a couple of questions about our two complicated main characters. First, what’s your take on Stanley Kowalski – is he just a monster or something more? And what about Blanche – do you completely sympathize with her or do you think her actions in any way contributed to her outcome? And one last, more general question – do you think this film is appropriately regarded among the best of all time? Other thoughts?

Let me know in the comments or @rvleaguers on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook. Thanks again for checking this out, and come back next week when we’ll be discussing, as I’m sure you guessed, Avengers Endgame! Happy Avengers week!

Top 10 Reasons Why We RV Full-Time

“Why do you do this?” – a question we get asked often when people learn that we live and travel full-time in our RV. It’s easy to immediately think of the things we gave up. We had a spacious Jersey City apartment with a walk-in closet, washer/dryer, and dishwasher, a law firm job in Manhattan, the picturesque park down the block, and the corner deli where we could get Taylor Ham, egg, and cheese sandwiches (a Jersey staple) whenever we wanted.

But when we reflected on our life, we realized that although we were happy, we always dreamed of a more meaningful life together with more time, more experience, and more freedom. Despite all the inertia and deeply instilled risk aversion tugging us to stay the course, we knew that what we stood to gain from breaking out of our old routine far outweighed the conventional comforts we’d be leaving behind. We simply couldn’t deny the call of the open road any longer.

Today is Day 250 since we embarked on our new life, and we wanted to reflect on those key reasons that compelled us to take a giant leap of faith back in August of last year. Here is our Top 10 list (in no particular order) of why we RV:

1. More quality time

We wanted more quality time with each other, beyond just evenings and weekends. Practically speaking, we’re young, energetic, newly married, and don’t have kids yet, so we saw this as the perfect opportunity to maximize our time together. RV life has allowed us to spend pretty much every day together and nurture our relationship.

2. More time outdoors

Before moving into Samwise, we both spent the vast majority of our time indoors. Whether it was in a windowless office or in the apartment, our weekdays were not vitamin D heavy, to say the least. At the end of a long day or week, it was often the default to just curl up on the big comfy couch and loaf. We wanted to be more physical and spend more time outdoors. Living in an RV connects us to the outdoors all the time, as our home naturally extends to the space outside. Whether it’s a short walk around our campground or a full day exploring a national park, our new default has become spending time outside in nature.

3. More time to create

Before, we found ourselves almost exclusively consuming content rather than creating. Of course, we still love to watch our favorite shows, movies, and everything else, but we’ve become more thoughtful about our habits. Now we can devote significantly more time to finding and creating with our own voice. We’ve also exchanged a lot of time doing routine things like commuting every day with a dynamic life that regularly introduces us to new places, scenery, and communities. This helps keep our minds stimulated and inspired to keep creating.

4. Experience this country

As Americans who both grew up in the small state of NJ, we have always shared a passion to experience our big country to the fullest extent possible. By RVing, we can visit more of America’s vibrant cities, spectacular national parks, small historic towns, and see all the corn fields, wind farms, and giant roadside dinosaur statues in between. We’re privileged to call such a massive and diverse land our home. We want to take full advantage of that by seeing and living it for ourselves – to truly understand our culture and find the familiar in far-flung places across all 50 states.

5. Collect experiences, not stuff

Yi caught onto the Minimalism and Marie Kondo’s tidying movements many years ago (before it was cool). So we’d already made an effort to downsize our possessions and keep only those we really value – those that “spark joy.” When we reduced physical clutter, we also made room for ourselves mentally and emotionally, allowing us to focus more on seeking and appreciating new experiences. Moving into Samwise took us to the next level. Even in a 30ft RV, our space is very limited. We try to keep only the essentials, things that serve a purpose and spark joy – looking at you multi-position ladder! We used to collect commemorative magnets when we traveled to new places, but now we focus on collecting the precious memories.

6. Living our values

We’ve always seen ourselves as adventurous people who get out there and try new things. But we wanted to walk the walk, and exchanging our Jersey City apartment for an RV allowed us to do that. When your home has wheels, you’re constantly setting out a course to something new and encouraging yourself to not fall into the routine. We also hope to impart these values onto our kids one day, and draw on this experience to encourage them to be curious, bold, and open-minded. We want to teach them to be unafraid of taking calculated risks, embracing adventure, and appreciating all that the world has the offer.

7. Freedom to live and work how we want

We now live in a hyper-connected digital economy, and we wanted to take advantage of this shift in the world to free ourselves from the traditional office and daily commute. Through living it, we hoped to prove that a rewarding career and work life doesn’t always have to be tethered to a neatly defined path. You can forge your own personal mission and path by doing what you love. We value the ability to be location-independent, and RV life has given us the flexibility to work from anywhere and truly shape our work life by doing what excites us.

8. Freedom to be at home anywhere we go

This one might be a little self-explanatory. We have a home that moves with us, so no matter where we move, we still feel at home. But it’s not just the physical aspect of taking everything to new places – it’s the feeling of being at home in Samwise and by extension, feeling at home in our new community. Over these past 250 days, we’ve been home in states as far as North Dakota, Utah, Pennsylvania, Texas, Washington, Arizona, and more. We’ve lived in the mountains, the desert, the plains, and the coasts. RV life gives us the steady comfort of home with each exciting new environment.

9. Freedom to express ourselves

The RV lifestyle has allowed us to define our lives and put our voice out there. This goes hand in hand with #3 (more time to create) – now we have the freedom to be creative and expressive. Instead of just watching travel videos, or reading others’ posts, or watching movie reviews, we create those things. We experience, travel to awe-inspiring places, and learn how to create videos and blog about the things we’re interested in and our experiences. We’re challenging ourselves to learn new skills. Trying something new can be frustrating at times, but the reward is ultimately getting to express our own voice.

10. Freedom to live intentionally

For us, that means being intentional from our everyday decisions to how we plan for the future. RV life teaches us to be more conscious as consumers, to set goals for ourselves that align with our values, and to not let toxic notions of success – that our personal worth is tied to the size of our paycheck or job title – derail us from the life we want to live. No one laid out the RV life for us. We had to go out and get it. Planning and executing on this dream has liberated us to really define our own path going forward, whatever that might be.

Reels on Wheels Movie Club (Week 2) Movie of the Week

New Orleans is a city unlike any other. It’s a city which many words are insufficient to describe, but for now I’ll stick with vibrant. It starts with the people, and then there’s the music, the food, and so much more. During our stint here this week, I’ve been inspired to look into some of the most notable New Orleans films. There are many titles of note related to the Big Easy, including (not surprisingly) The Big Easy, King Creole, Princess and the Frog, and Interview with a Vampire.

So with no shortage of options for this Movie of the Week, I’ve decided to go with a film that is widely considered to be one of the best of all time: A Streetcar Named Desire (1951). Adapted from the Tennessee WIlliams play of the same name, the film tells the story of Blanche DuBois (Vivian Leigh) after moving in with her sister (Kim Hunter) and brother-in-law (Marlon Brando) in New Orleans. The film received numerous accolades including four Academy Awards and is listed on the American Film Institute’s Top 100 movies at number 47.

I’ll be back to kickoff a discussion with my thoughts on the film on the next #MovieMonday. In the meantime, you can find A Streetcar Named Desire streaming online or in your grandparents’ old movie collection.

A Streetcar Named Desire trailer:

And check out last week’s episode on No Country for Old Men!

Reels on Wheels Movie Club (Episode 1)

No Country for Old Men, the Coen Brothers’ Best Picture winner, is a genre-bending film that subverts expectations and delivers one of cinema’s most iconic and terrifying villains. In this first ever installment of the Reels on Wheels Movie Club, we’re deep diving into the film and talking about its themes, direction, score (or lack thereof) and more!

Video Time Stamps

Introduction: 0:00
Overall Impressions: 2:45
Opening Sequence Setting the Tone: 4:55
On Anton Chigurh: 8:22
Coin Toss Scene: 12:11
Genre, Theme, and Subverting Expectations: 16:18
Concluding Thoughts and Questions: 25:22

What is the Reels on Wheels Movie Club? Introductory Blogpost

Reels on Wheels: Movie Club

Those of you who follow us may have noticed an uptick in movie-related content recently. As avid Marvel fans, we’re all in on the hype leading up to Avengers: Endgame. But the MCU is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to our movie watching habits. In fact, our relationship’s foundations are built on binge watching movies together (and this was in 2011, well before “Netflix and Chill” was a thing). We even created a Google Spreadsheet with a tab to document every film we watched together by date and genre. That spreadsheet also included other tabs for things like “New Year’s Resolutions” – but only the movie sheet survives to this day.

With over 100 years of cinematic history, there’s an almost endless supply of movies to consume and digest. So far, besides a penchant for movie watching, I’ve got a couple of college cinema courses and countless hours of other channels’ movie-related content under my belt (looking at you, ScreenJunkies). But I really want to better understand the history, craft, and art of cinema, and I’m sure I’m not the only one.

So What Do I Propose?

Starting this week, I’m going to choose at least one movie per week to deep dive into. First, I’ll let you know in advance what the Movie of the Week is. Then, I’ll kick off a discussion with my thoughts on the movie the following “Movie Monday.” I hope you’ll join me in watching (or re-watching) the movie, and together we can grow our knowledge and passion for film. I want to focus on particularly significant films of all types, but I’m not just going to go down the AFI Top 100 list. I mean, we all know what the Movie of the Week will be come April 26.

Oh and yes, I’m calling this the Reels on Wheels Movie Club. It’s kind of like a book club, but with movies. See what I did there?

Inaugural Movie of the Week: No Country for Old Men (2007)

This week we made our way to Texas, which inspired me to look into iconic Texas films. One pair of directors has made several: Joel Coen and Ethan Coen, collectively known as the Coen Brothers. For the inaugural Movie of the Week, I’m picking a film that I’ve wanted to see ever since it came out, but somehow have managed to miss: No Country For Old Men (2007). The Coen Brothers’ neo-Western crime thriller adapts Cormac McCarthy’s 2005 novel of the same name. And it won several Oscars, including Best Picture. It’s available now on Netflix or to rent on several other streaming services. Be sure to check back in on Movie Monday for the discussion of this film and for next week’s pick!